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What is an Inner Critic? authenticity people pleasing self-improvement self-worth Aug 31, 2024

The inner critic—those persistent, nagging thoughts that tell you "you're not good enough," "this is all your fault," or "you’ll never succeed"—isn’t a voice you were born with. Instead, it develops over time, often rooted in the experiences and environments we grow up in....

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Crush Your Inner Critic and Build Self-Trust authenticity emotional health people pleasing self-improvement self-worth Aug 29, 2024

Do you ever find yourself doubting your decisions, second-guessing your abilities, or feeling like you just aren’t good enough? Many people struggle with self-trust, and a powerful inner critic often lies at the root of this struggle. Rather than helping you improve, this internal voice can...

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How to Be Authentic Without Making a Fool of Yourself authenticity people pleasing people-pleasers self-improvement self-worth Jul 17, 2024

Getting caught up in trying to be who others want you to be is easy. But deep down, being genuine is how to feel truly fulfilled. I want to share some insights on what it means to live authentically, overcome challenges, and take real steps just to be you while staying true to your core beliefs.

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7 Signs You're a People-Pleaser authenticity people pleasing people-pleasers self-improvement self-worth Jul 10, 2024

 

As a psychologist, I often work with clients struggling in their relationships because of their habits of people-pleasing. This behavior, while well-intentioned, can actually do more harm than good in your relationships and personal well-being. 

Most people I work with didn't...

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The Importance of Self-Love and Self-Compassion self-improvement self-worth Jun 24, 2024

Self-love and self-compassion are essential components of healing and forgiveness. By prioritizing these practices, we honor our own worth and value, paving the way for a more fulfilling and balanced life. In this blog post, we will explore the significance of self-love and self-compassion and...

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From Fear to Freedom: A Guide to Authenticity authenticity self-worth Jun 18, 2024

 "Our deepest Fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." – Marianne Williamson.

Fear can make us feel stuck. We don't try new things or share our true selves because we fear failure or judgment. But here's the truth: Fear is holding...

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