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Reclaim Your Power: Stop Living Only for Others 

 

Are you a People-Pleaser? 

Are you tired of putting others' needs before your own? 

Do you find it challenging to say "no" or set boundaries? 

Are you tired of living according to others' expectations,
constantly seeking their approval? 

People pleasing is a behavior pattern where individuals go to great lengths to seek approval, validation, and acceptance from others. 

 It's time to prioritize your well-being and happiness.

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Signs You Might Be a People-Pleaser

  • Constant Approval Seeking: Seeking validation from others at the cost of your happiness.
  • Difficulty Saying No: Struggling to assert yourself and prioritize your well-being.
  • Putting Others First: Habitually prioritizing others' needs over your own.
  • Fear of Conflict: Avoiding confrontation even if it means suppressing your emotions.
  • Ignoring Boundaries: Struggling to set and enforce healthy personal boundaries.

If you find yourself saying yes to any of these signs, you're not alone! 

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Hi, I'm Dr. Julie

A Different Kind of Coach

I am Dr. Julie Shafer, a psychologist, relationship coach, and award-winning author, dedicated to guiding individuals towards more authentic relationships by breaking free from people-pleasing patterns and habits. With over two decades of experience, I focus on helping people build authenticity by forming meaningful relationships with themselves and others. Motivated by a passion for empowering women, I wrote the award-winning book, “Loved: Relationship Rules for Women Who Thought They Knew the Rules,” drawing on my extensive expertise and personal challenges with authenticity and people-pleasing.

In my transformative work, I explore people-pleasing dynamics, recognizing it as a pervasive issue that significantly impacts personal growth and connection. Combining my knowledge of relationship dynamics, trauma, adult attachment, and societal conditioning, I highlight the influence people-pleasing has on all aspects of life. I guide women seeking to overcome the limitations of people-pleasing on a journey of authenticity, genuine connection, and a joyful life.

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