Dr. Julie Shafer People-Pleasers Workshop

Do you find yourself
consistently being accused of selfishness when you set boundaries?

Are you struggling with guilt whenever you say no to others, even when it’s in your best interest?

You’re not alone—and the good news is that this workshop will empower you to handle accusations of selfishness with confidence and clarity.

SAVE YOUR SEAT

The Truth About Boundaries and “Selfishness”

Setting boundaries doesn’t make you selfish; it makes you strong, clear, and self-respecting. Unfortunately, society often associates boundaries with selfishness, making it difficult to prioritize your needs without feeling guilty.

When you set healthy boundaries, you create space for better relationships, improved self-care, and more meaningful interactions. The challenge lies in overcoming the fear of judgment and guilt, especially when others may react negatively or accuse you of being “selfish.”

In this workshop, we’ll help you reframe what it truly means to prioritize yourself. You’ll learn how to confidently communicate your boundaries, navigate uncomfortable reactions from others, and stand firm in your decisions without the emotional weight of guilt.

By the end, you’ll understand the importance of setting boundaries and have the tools and confidence to stick to them — no matter what others may think. It's time to reclaim your personal power and show up for yourself with clarity and strength.

It’s time to stop apologizing for taking care of yourself.
It’s time to let go of guilt.
And it’s time to embrace your right to set boundaries.

This Is Your Permission Slip to Prioritize Yourself

Join this workshop to learn how to live life on your terms — with confidence, clarity, and compassion.

Is This Workshop for You?

Let’s Find Out.

Do you feel guilty every time you say "no," even when you need to?
Are you afraid of how people will react when you set a boundary?
Have you been called “selfish” for putting your needs first?
Do you want to stop people-pleasing but don’t know where to start?

If you’re nodding along, this workshop is exactly what you need.

You’re not here to become a “bad person” or to stop caring about others. You’re here to learn how to prioritize yourself without guilt — and to handle uncomfortable reactions with confidence and calm.

It’s time to stop second-guessing yourself and start living life on your terms. Let’s make that happen together!

What You'll Discover:

Clarity on the difference between selfishness and self-care.
Why may others accuse you of being selfish, and how can you navigate these situations without guilt?
Strategies to communicate assertively and confidently when setting boundaries.
Practical tools to handle accusations without sacrificing your values.
How to shift from people-pleasing to authentic self-respect.

This workshop runs for about an hour, giving you actionable insights and guidance to transform your self-care journey in a concise, impactful session.

Why You Should Join?

Gain the confidence to set boundaries without feeling guilty.
Understand how to assert your needs while maintaining compassion for others.
Empower yourself to say "no" without fear of judgment or rejection.
Take back control of your life by honoring your needs and relationships.

Don't let guilt hold you back—sign up today and discover how to stand strong in your self-care journey!

End the Cycle of Guilt and Overwhelm

Reserve your spot now to get the tools and strategies for setting healthy, empowering boundaries.

About Dr. Julie

I am Dr. Julie Shafer, a psychologist, relationship coach, and award-winning author, dedicated to guiding individuals towards more authentic relationships by breaking free from people-pleasing patterns and habits. With over two decades of experience, I focus on helping people build authenticity by forming meaningful relationships with themselves and others. Motivated by a passion for empowering women, I wrote the award-winning book, “Loved: Relationship Rules for Women Who Thought They Knew the Rules,” drawing on my extensive expertise and personal challenges with authenticity and people-pleasing.

In my transformative work, I explore people-pleasing dynamics, recognizing it as a pervasive issue that significantly impacts personal growth and connection. Combining my knowledge of relationship dynamics, trauma, adult attachment, and societal conditioning, I highlight the influence people-pleasing has on all aspects of life. I guide women seeking to overcome the limitations of people-pleasing on a journey of authenticity, genuine connection, and a joyful life.

Do you find yourself consistently being accused of selfishness when you set boundaries?